I didn't write anything related to Cinco de Mayo, so I'm writing something about Seis de Mayo. Actually, it's about Cinco, just written on Seis... We had a big Mexican food BBQ at work yesterday and a mariachi band rocking the Googleplex for lunch. Good times, good food. I saw a lot of confused looking Asians though, and I heard "what's this?" a lot in the food line.
Just so you know, I'm wearing flip flops at work today. But they're 'professional' looking flip flops (leather), not the old plastic kind. Come on, this is a business and I have standards to uphold.
My buddy Jason is getting back into running after a prolonged foot injury, and it's awesome to be running with him again. I've already had a pretty good spring of running - according to my exercise log I've run 325 miles so far this year. St. George lottery results come out this week and hopefully I'll get some good news there - which means the running will start ramping up in a few weeks.
Brig's been developing a bit of an attitude lately. He'll flat out tell Ang or me "no" when we tell him to do something. It's gotten to the point that we have to say, "ok, go put yourself in timeout", and he'll start crying and walk into his room and sit on his bed. It's actually really cute - we don't make him stay in there long, just enough to get the point.
We've been helping Dan and Hailey a little bit on their housing search for this summer. It's been great to see some really good options pop up lately that they would never have known about, so we feel like we're helping them a little bit. I point this out because Dan is going to be recruited into Richards Moving Co. this summer - and I just want him to remember that we've been nice to him while he's moving endless loads of boxes and furniture between our houses.
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Pres. Thomas S. Monson, Oct 2008
"This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and non-existent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now.
... Professor Harold Hill, one of the principal characters in [The Music Man], voices a caution that I share with you. Says he, “You pile up enough tomorrows, and you’ll find you’ve collected a lot of empty yesterdays.”
f you have children who are grown and gone, in all likelihood you have occasionally felt pangs of loss and the recognition that you didn’t appreciate that time of life as much as you should have. Of course, there is no going back, but only forward. Rather than dwelling on the past, we should make the most of today, of the here and now, doing all we can to provide pleasant memories for the future.
Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, “They do not love that do not show their love.”3 We will never regret the kind words spoken or the affection shown. Rather, our regrets will come if such things are omitted from our relationships with those who mean the most to us.
Send that note to the friend you’ve been neglecting; give your child a hug; give your parents a hug; say “I love you” more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved. Friends move away, children grow up, loved ones pass on. It’s so easy to take others for granted, until that day when they’re gone from our lives and we are left with feelings of “what if” and “if only.” Said author Harriet Beecher Stowe, “The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.”
In the 1960s, during the Vietnam War, Church member Jay Hess, an airman, was shot down over North Vietnam. For two years his family had no idea whether he was dead or alive. His captors in Hanoi eventually allowed him to write home but limited his message to less than 25 words. What would you and I say to our families if we were in the same situation—not having seen them for over two years and not knowing if we would ever see them again? Wanting to provide something his family could recognize as having come from him and also wanting to give them valuable counsel, Brother Hess wrote—and I quote: “These things are important: temple marriage, mission, college. Press on, set goals, write history, take pictures twice a year.”
Said one well-known author: “Both abundance and lack [of abundance] exist simultaneously in our lives, as parallel realities. It is always our conscious choice which secret garden we will tend . . . when we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that’s present—love, health, family, friends, work, the joys of nature, and personal pursuits that bring us [happiness]—the wasteland of illusion falls away and we experience heaven on earth.”
Said the Lord in a revelation given through the Prophet Joseph Smith, “In nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things.”10 May we be found among those who give our thanks to our Heavenly Father. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues.
Brothers and sisters, my sincere prayer is that we may adapt to the changes in our lives, that we may realize what is most important, that we may express our gratitude always and thus find joy in the journey."
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2 comments:
I think it is safe to say that the Bay Area cannot handle two Richards boys living there...and with the same company, that is some crazy stuff. Now if we could just get Google to open up a field office in SLC...
Didn't my offer letter for the Richards Moving Co come with a signing bonus of some sort? Still waiting on that - maybe got lost in the mail...
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