j . a . m . k . m . b: Game Film Breakdown

Pres. Thomas S. Monson, Oct 2008

"This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and non-existent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now.

... Professor Harold Hill, one of the principal characters in [The Music Man], voices a caution that I share with you. Says he, “You pile up enough tomorrows, and you’ll find you’ve collected a lot of empty yesterdays.”

f you have children who are grown and gone, in all likelihood you have occasionally felt pangs of loss and the recognition that you didn’t appreciate that time of life as much as you should have. Of course, there is no going back, but only forward. Rather than dwelling on the past, we should make the most of today, of the here and now, doing all we can to provide pleasant memories for the future.

Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, “They do not love that do not show their love.”³ We will never regret the kind words spoken or the affection shown. Rather, our regrets will come if such things are omitted from our relationships with those who mean the most to us.

Send that note to the friend you’ve been neglecting; give your child a hug; give your parents a hug; say “I love you” more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved. Friends move away, children grow up, loved ones pass on. It’s so easy to take others for granted, until that day when they’re gone from our lives and we are left with feelings of “what if” and “if only.” Said author Harriet Beecher Stowe, “The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.”

In the 1960s, during the Vietnam War, Church member Jay Hess, an airman, was shot down over North Vietnam. For two years his family had no idea whether he was dead or alive. His captors in Hanoi eventually allowed him to write home but limited his message to less than 25 words. What would you and I say to our families if we were in the same situation—not having seen them for over two years and not knowing if we would ever see them again? Wanting to provide something his family could recognize as having come from him and also wanting to give them valuable counsel, Brother Hess wrote—and I quote: “These things are important: temple marriage, mission, college. Press on, set goals, write history, take pictures twice a year.”

Said one well-known author: “Both abundance and lack [of abundance] exist simultaneously in our lives, as parallel realities. It is always our conscious choice which secret garden we will tend . . . when we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that’s present—love, health, family, friends, work, the joys of nature, and personal pursuits that bring us [happiness]—the wasteland of illusion falls away and we experience heaven on earth.”

Said the Lord in a revelation given through the Prophet Joseph Smith, “In nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things.”¹⁰ May we be found among those who give our thanks to our Heavenly Father. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues.

Brothers and sisters, my sincere prayer is that we may adapt to the changes in our lives, that we may realize what is most important, that we may express our gratitude always and thus find joy in the journey."

Monday, June 4, 2007

Game Film Breakdown

After extensive analysis of the game film of Brig walking, I have some observations to note:

He can run in traffic: some backs have to have a clear lane through which to carry the ball, and are afraid to get hit. Brig demonstrated an ability to pick his way through a shifting defense, even without proper blockers, which could be a big deal if he plays at East.
He is patient in letting the play develop and the hole open up: some backs just put their head down and bull their way straight into the jaws of the defense, never seeing the hole open up to the side or one second later. Brig clearly showed a sense of patience, not afraid to get hit while things played out in front of him, and then he exploded into the gap.
He has good hip swivel: some players just never develop good balance and the ability to change directions quickly. This talent appears to be innate in Brig, as you watch him throw subtle moves, almost as if he's dancing with the flow of the game, that serve to keep him limber and able to attack at a moment's notice.
He doesn't let obstacles stop him: a lot of babies would have been stopped cold by the 1/4 inch high transition from kitchen vinyl to fluffy-ish carpet. Not Brig! Whether it's a massive D-line, or a 1/4 inch metal strip, Brig just charges right through with no thought to the physical consequences.
He showed a propensity to be distracted by the Cheerleaders: yes, I have to admit, he did falter once as he got seduced by the craziness that is his fan base and the cheerleading squad. We've talked about this, and as long as it stops once they reach the playoffs, we're ok with it.

So you can see that Brig has a bright athletic future ahead of him. Now if he would only learn that falling off stuff and hurting himself can be avoided. He fell off a table he climbed onto yesterday, and he still hasn't figured out that going off our bed head first onto the hardwood floor could be avoided by turning around and sliding off feet first. Oh well, I guess he'll be tough at least.

2 comments:

Dan and Hailey said...: Beautiful! I think he's ready for primetime baby...; June 5, 2007 at 4:02 AM
Spencer said...: Nice analysis. We could be seeing the next great back here. Of course he'll need to be surrounded by good teammates, so he'll have to move back to Utah to go to school with my boys, but there's plenty of time for that. Way to go, Brig.; June 5, 2007 at 9:04 AM

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Pres. Thomas S. Monson, Oct 2008

Monday, June 4, 2007

Game Film Breakdown

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